How much is it the responsibility of the worker to keep up or accept microaggressions and adapt and overcome vs the employer (or dominant group) to ensure they are speaking in a non insulting and validating manner at all times.
In some situations its far more black and white and seeing that so many people have to be so professional in the workplace because most people want to make the best choice everyday all the time. I thought about something similar that happened to me. My managers and direct reports know where I went to school and know that I grew up in a more well off area of the city we work in.



