I was struck during this week's reading when I read in Adult Leadership and Development, A Contrsuctionist's View by Kegan and Lahey when I read about more mature or older readers; "Their current feelings seemed not so much about changes in the intensity of their commitment but reevaluations of the shape of that commitment" (p. 201). This statement came in the section about how Levinson views many of life's changes as age-related. The reason this struck me is two-fold, first, I'm in or near the age range that was mentioned as being a part of that change, ergo, I may be experiencing a change in my own views on work right now. Secondly, it struck me how similar it was to something we read last week in Goleman's, What Makes a Leader? article.

In Goleman's article, he states in the aside titled, Can Emotional Intelligence Be Learned? "One thing is certain: Emotional intelligence increases with age. There is an old-fashioned word for the phenomenon: maturity," (p. 5). Last week we read in this article how it is Goleman's belief that emotional intelligence isn't a necessity for great leadership, but that most great leaders have a high degree of emotional intelligence. It is for this reason he wrote that being able to study, develop, and refine tools that make up emotional intelligence is so important in leadership.
For a long while I thought most of what went into this aspect of leadership and emotional intelligence, this ability to be more self-aware, detached, regulated, and more socially engaging, was more linked to Mazlow's hierarchy of needs. Once the air, water, food, and shelter is attained, and once personal security, employment, and health are met, then one can begin focusing on belonging, esteem, and self-actualization. This I believed lead leaders I have worked for to become more capable in their leadership, more emotionally intelligent, and more successful in their businesses. Once the high salary kicks in instead of the hourly payment, once there is the investment of years in a company rather than being the new kid on the block, once there is the financial security and a network of associates, then the feeling of confidence and capability can take root.
What this week's readings have shown me is that it is not one thing or another. The life changes that make up the development of a good leader and a leader's use of more tools and techniques can not be attributed to one aspect of leadership, but rather that it is a cocktail of leadership facets. Maturity, age, experience, external factors that contribute to a feeling of security, all play a part in creating the setting that allows leaders to flourish and further develop. What that cocktail might include will be different for each person but it is intriguing to begin to see the ingredients that are needed for that to take place.
It would be intriguing to begin to determine how much of the different ingredients are needed and in what order and how to mix them that helps attain the best solution or soil for leadership growth. Does maturity and experience alone provide the necessary fodder for leadership development or must it come with happiness at home and financial security? Does hitting the age of fifty create the correct temperament, or must it be accompanied by the development of empathy and learning how to be more self-aware. How do all of these work to create that leadership mindset that great leaders have, or is each so individual that it must be taken uniquely and developed singularly?
Goleman, D. (1998). What Makes a Leader? Harvard Business Review. http://jbedwardsandassociates.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/12/HBR-What-makes-a-great-leader-D.-Goleman.pdf (Links to an external site.)
Kegan, R. & Lahey, L.L. (1984). Adult Leadership and Adult Development: A Constructionist View. Leadership: Multidisciplinary Perspectives.
McLeod, S. (2020, March 20). Mazlow's Hierarchy of Needs. Simply Psychology. https://www.simplypsychology.org/maslow.html